Pre-planning Minimizes Stress of Introducing a New Pet into the Home

Most pets react well to the introduction of a new pet into the family. In the case of a family dog or cat, most adapt quickly after an initial period of curiosity. How your dog or cat behaves in general often provides a clue as to how it will behave around a new dog or cat. For example, if your pet is aggressive towards strangers or other animals, it may become aggressive towards the newcomer. In the case of a dog, if it is overly active, it may become rambunctious and inadvertently harm a young puppy or kitten. If it is spoiled, it may resent your new pet and become jealous. In short, its present temperament is likely to provide you with an idea of what you can expect.

In the case of a dog, your job will also be made easier if it is obedience trained. If it will not obey commands to sit, stay, lie down or come unless it is taught to do so. This will prepare your dog for those times when you need to spend time exclusively with the new puppy or kitten. You need simply to order your dog to sit and stay and can then devote your attention completely to the new pet.

When the new dog or cat arrives, the excitement level should remain low-key. Once everyone has settled in and the family pet seems relaxed, the introductions can begin. In the case of the family dog, while holding the newcomer, the family dog should be commanded into the sit/stay position while on a leash. Slowly bring the new pet (especially if it is a young kitten or puppy) closer to the dog. If all appears to be under control, your dog can be permitted to come closer and sniff the new arrival. If there is growling or any sign of aggression, your dog should be made to obey commands to sit/stay and then be praised and offered rewards. In the case of the family cat, it should be permitted to approach the newcomer and inspect it.

Until you are comfortable that your dog or cat will behave, your pet should not have access to the new pet without your supervision. Make sure that your pet gets enough attention during those first few weeks to discourage jealousy. You might also try rewards (e.g. treats or petting) whenever you begin to do something with the new pet. Try to associate the new pet with positive, pleasant experiences rather than negative ones (such as scolding, yelling or punishment for inappropriate behaviour). Rest assured that ultimately both pets will accept each other as family members.